Here is a wonderful quote found in my sister's "Snippets & Snatches" after she left us.
By Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
"The Heights of great men reached and kept were not attained by sudden flight, but they, while their companions slept, were toiling upward in the night."
One way she always toiled, endlessly, was as the family peacemaker trying to unite all members in harmony. We all miss her.